| Greasborough,
West Riding, England 1851
Life
was good for Thirza and her children once they had been taken under the
wing of the John Simmonite. He mollycoddled her and it lasted for five
years until John had a massive heart attack which killed him. Thirza was
almost alone. Only William lived at home, the other children John and
Emma, only seventeen, were now married and raising their own families.
William was now twenty four years of age. He was five feet six and three
quarter inches tall, with light brown hair grey eyes and an oval visage
bearing a light complexion. He was decidedly good looking but his good
looks were of the warlike type. He had a bright complexion, sharp
features, hard and fierce in the expression in his face, and was
possessed of an eye of singular restlessness and acuteness. The small
tightly compressed mouth, the sharp chin, the knife like nose, the cheek
bones overhanging the lower face in a graceful curve like beetling
cliffs, and the eyes peering like a pair of keen falcons from their
recesses beneath the arched eyebrows. He was, in many respects, a most
noticeable man. It is not often that a face so fitted to express
endurance and scornful courage and so thoroughly martial could be found
for the sculptor and it seems a pity that a man whom Nature fitted for a
soldier and whom Lord Byron would have delighted with as an ideal
corsair, should be no more than a coal pit trammer at the nearby
Carhouse colliery and whose daily job was simply pushing heavily laden
coaltubs. He was still unmarried and although he had had brief flings
with a few of the village girls none had ever amounted to more than a
kiss and a cuddle. He had begun poaching, more for fun than for profit.
The area surrounding Greasbrough was all fields, most of them belonging
to the Fitzwilliam’s. William would occasionally go out in the late
evening, set his purse nets over the rabbit holes and then return the
next evening to pick up his spoils. He had never been challenged by any
of the estate gamekeepers but, in general, they were stealing
and selling more game than he was and they weren’t really
bothered about small time poachers like him. Poached rabbits seemed to
taste better than the ones that his mother bought off the market.
His first glimpse of Myra Wilcock took his breath away. She was a real
beauty with black hair and dark eyes, almost the looks of a gypsy.
Nineteen years of age, tall and slim, she walked with an air of grace
and William fell in love with her instantly. She never even noticed him.
Although the family lived quite close he couldn’t understand why he
had never seen her before. She was in service and was employed at the
Ashcroft Academy, a school
for young gentlemen at Wentworth, where she stayed throughout the
week returning home each weekend to be with her family. Chance of
meeting Myra came when his mother was involved with St Mary’s Church
annual fete. She was helping along with Myra’s mother, Ann Wilcock, on
one of the cake stalls. Mrs. Wilcock had told Thirza that her daughter
Myra would be at the culmination of the weeks festivities which was a
barn dance being held at the village hall on Saturday night. Thirza just
happened to mention it to William.
At
the dance, William couldn’t take his eyes off Myra – and she had
noticed him at last. He had taken especial care preparing for this
evening and in his heart he knew that he would be escorting this
beautiful girl home. He just needed to the courage to ask her to dance.
Since orange squash was the only available drink, that wasn’t going to
help him much although he had called in the Yellow Lion earlier and
enjoyed a couple of pints of ale. She
had already danced with a couple of the village lads, her skirts
swinging out as they twirled her around, her long black hair glinting
with highlights. He wanted to hold her in his arms and look into those
dark flashing eyes. Now she was standing alone. He looked around and
noticed other fellows looking in her direction. “Now, now’s the
time,” he thought. He paced towards her, he could almost hear his
heart beating, and suddenly he was standing before her. She was taller
than he had thought, almost as tall as he was and she looked him
straight in the eye “Will you ....?” he hesitated, “Will you give me
the pleasure of the next dance, please?”
She smiled, her rosy lips revealing pearly white teeth and she
held out her hand. He took it gently and a feeling of warmth came over
him as they walked toward the dance floor. The dance was a blur, she was
laughing as they spun around and he was overcome by her beauty. Suddenly
it was over and holding her hand he gently escorted her back to where she
had been standing. “Thank you” he exclaimed. His mouth almost fell
open with surprise when she said, “That was lovely, will you take me
again?” They danced together for the rest of the evening. After the
dance they walked through the village until they reached the cottage
where she lived with her widowed Mother and six brothers and sisters. It
was a beautiful starlit night and William hoped it may the start of a
new life for them both. He didn’t want to leave but she whispered,
“Thank you for a lovely evening”. William said, “Can I see you
again?” “Not until next
weekend,” she replied. “May I call on you then” he pleaded.
“Yes,” she smiled. She leaned toward him and brushed his cheek with
a light kiss. Opening the cottage door she disappeared into the half
light and the door closed. William stood there for a few moments unable
to believe what had happened in the last few hours. He had met the woman
of his dreams and he vowed, there and then, that she would become his
wife. William Sykes was in love. What he didn’t know was that Myra had
also fallen in love - with
him. He floated rather than
walked the short distance home. He just couldn’t believe that he had
spent the last few hours with the most precious, beautiful girl in the
world. How on earth would he be able to wait a whole week before he
would see her again.
The
days of the following week seemed so long. Each day spent at work
pushing and shoving those coal tubs but, in the inky blackness of the
mine he could see that vision of loveliness in the shadows of his mind.
He even went to bed early to try and shorten the amount of time he would
have to wait to see Myra. Nothing had ever affected him so much. The
waiting was almost painful.
Early Saturday evening he soaked himself in the tin bath in front of the
hot radiant fire, the hot sudsy water bathing him and purging out every
speck of coal dust from his pores. His mind was still on Myra and his
thoughts of her were spreading a warm glow through his body. He closed
his eyes and tried to focus his imagination on her pretty face. Her
laughing eyes and bright smile were lasting reminders and he was filled
with expectation of his next meeting with her this evening.
At eight o’clock prompt he stood on her doorstep in his hand a bunch
of wild violets picked earlier in the day. He tapped on the door. The
door opened and Myra’s mother, Mrs. Wilcock, beckoned him inside. The
house was full of people and children. “Come in, young man” she said
and began to explain who they all were. Myra’s eldest brother Ellis
and his family were visiting. There was fourteen year old Alfred, young
Herbert and the two youngest daughters, Rosemary and Ruby. William
smiled and nodded curtly to each as Myra’s mother named them but was
impatient to see Myra. The door at the bottom the stairs opened and
there she was, a vision of loveliness. She was wearing a long black
skirt and a creamy white blouse. The front of the blouse was decorated
with fine lace and was buttoned to the neck She took the flowers from
him and thanked him shyly. She disappeared into the kitchen, returning
with the violets in a small vase which she placed carefully on the wide
window sill which was illuminated by the setting sun.
“Shall we go for a walk?” asked Myra. William nodded. “Take
our Herbert with you then” said Mrs.Wilcock. Myra just smiled. “We
won’t be too long,” she said, “Come along Herbert, get your
coat”. William was disappointed, he wanted Myra all to himself. They
walked up the High Street past the church and the village square out
towards the open fields. Young Herbert tagged on behind.
She asked what he had been doing all week and after a short reply from
William of “Going to work mainly” began to recount some the
happenings over the week at the Ashcroft Academy. It was still quite
warm even though the sun was almost down but Myra had brought a woollen
shawl which she draped around her shoulders. They reached the footpath
that went to Scholes about a mile away. It was a rough cart track. Young
Herbert was trailing behind by about fifty yards picking up small stones
and throwing them at the sparrows twittering in the hedgerows scattering
them in all directions. William
was walking backwards with Myra walking towards him. Suddenly Myra
tripped, her arms outstretched as she began to fall. William caught her
in his strong arms and drew her up to him. Their faces were only inches
apart, he could feel her warm body against him, her soft young breasts
pressing against his muscular chest. Her lips were slightly parted and
she looked directly into his eyes. He bent his head forward and brushed
his lips against hers and his mind exploded with a thousand stars. The
kiss only lasted a few seconds but they both knew it was what they
wanted and it was only the first of many. William glanced back down the
track to where Herbert was still throwing stones. He surely hadn’t
noticed anything. He
slipped his hand into hers and they walked a little further. The sun had
gone down now and the light was fading. “Better go back now,” she
said and turned William round to face the opposite direction. They soon
caught up to young Herbert and returned to Myra’s cottage. Ellis and
his family had left and the rest of the children had been sent off to
bed. Mrs.Wilcock made them both a hot steaming cup of tea and asked
where they had been. Young Herbert piped up, “Up to the cart path and
they were kissing each other.” William
felt so embarrassed and was chided, with a smile on her face, by Mrs.
Wilcock for “taking advantage of my daughter.”
Myra jumped up and chased young Herbert shouting after him “You
shouldn’t have been looking you little rascal.”
Herbert ran upstairs giggling and off to bed. “Time you were in
bed young lady” said Myra’s mother. William took the hint and said
it was time for him to go. Myra followed him to the door and they
stepped outside the door closing quietly behind them. It was quite dark
now, the stars twinkling brightly in the cloudless sky. The moonlight
fell on Myra’s face and her skin looked like porcelain. William took
her in his arms and pulled her close to him. Myra entwined her arms
around his neck and her face brushed closely to his. He searched for
those soft ruby lips and their warm slightly open mouths came together
in a lingering kiss. Her warm body was so close, his hands around that
slim waist were gently squeezing and caressing her. She gently pushed
him away, “I must go now” she said. “Can I see you again
tomorrow?” asked William. “No, I have to go back to Wentworth
tomorrow afternoon,” she replied. “Perhaps next weekend,” she
teased.
The week dragged by, his mind continually remembering those few
passionate moments which had given them both such great enjoyment. He
worked harder than ever trying to make time pass even quicker. At last
Saturday came. With the same careful preparation as the previous week he
readied himself for his next meeting with Myra. He walked the short
distance to her Mother’s cottage his heart beating faster with every
pace. He tapped on the door. This time young Herbert answered. “Mum,
it’s Mr. Sykes,” he shouted. Mrs. Wilcock came to the door, teacloth
in hand and looked at William inquiringly. “I’ve called to see
Myra,” he said. “I’m sorry William but Myra isn’t home this
weekend. She has had to stay at work, some kind of special weekend or
something for the boys at the Academy. She won’t be home till next
weekend.” Mrs. Wilcock could tell that William was noticeably
disappointed. She smiled. “Don’t fret lad, it will soon pass” she
said. William thanked her and turned away. The Yellow Lion beckoned him
and he knew a few pints of ale would help him drown his sorrows.
“Another week,” he said quietly to himself shaking his head.
The next few days went slowly by. On the Thursday afternoon he came home
from work. He was dog tired after his long shift at the pit but he
enjoyed the hearty meal his mother had prepared. She always made sure
that he was well fed. The strenuous nature of his job pushing and
pulling coal tubs had resulted in William developing broad shoulders and
a fine muscular body. Occasionally during a lull in production the lads
at the pit would compete to see how many times they could press a pair
of tub wheels. There were always spare sets available to repair the
tubs. William always won. After his meal he sat in the chair and fell
asleep thinking of Myra, wishing the weekend would come. Another two
days to wait.
Thirza shook him gently, waking him from his dreams. “I’m off to see
Auntie Mary. I’ll be back about ten o’clock.” William yawned,
“OK, I’ll probably be
in bed when you get back.” William
looked at the clock – it was six o’clock. He opened the back door
and reached up for the tin bath hanging outside on a rusty nail. Placing
it in front of the open fire he started to fill it with hot water
boiling several kettles in the process, moderating the temperature with
jugs of cold water until the water was hot enough and deep enough to
bathe. He stripped off his pit clothes his body still covered in the
black coal dust which seemed to get into every pore and every orifice.
He stepped in to the hot water and began to scrub himself clean. After
bathing he shaved and then dressed himself. The bath was gradually
emptied using a lading can and wiped clean, then hung back on it’s
rusty nail ready for use next evening. “I fancy a pint in the Lion”
he thought to himself checking that he had enough coppers. He reached
out for his waistcoat when there was a tap at the front door. He opened
the door. It was Myra. He was shocked and couldn’t believe his eyes.
His mouth was agape. “Are you going to ask me in or are you going to
make me stand here all night?” she said smiling. “Yes, I’m sorry,
it’s just that you are the last person I expected to see, I thought
that you wouldn’t be home until Saturday.” William stood back and
Myra stepped into the cottage. As all women do, she began look round and
take stock of the interior of the cottage. There was a big sofa and a
rocking chair facing the large open fired cooking range. Thirza was
obviously a house proud lady. Everything
was tidily arranged and it was warm and cosy. She could smell the faint
aroma of freshly picked scented herbs. Myra was impressed. “It’s
lovely,” she remarked. “Are these yours?” she said as she pointed
to a pile of scruffy pit clothes. William was a little embarrassed,
scooped the pile of clothes up and
hurriedly took them through to the kitchen where they were
normally stored ready for his next shift at the pit. Myra laughed. She
sat on the sofa. It was the kind that enveloped you with it large soft
cushions sucking you in. She patted the cushion beside her and said
“Come and sit down.” “Would you like a drink or anything” he
blurted. She shook her head. He had waited almost two weeks to see her.
Had thought a thousand times of all the things he was going to say to
her and now he was almost struck dumb. “My mother has gone to visit
Auntie Mary” he explained awkwardly, “She won’t be back while
later.” The light outside was beginning to fade as the sun set and
William lit one of the small oil lamps. “I have to go back to
Wentworth in the morning,” Myra explained. “I have to work the
weekend again.” She could see the disappointment on Williams face.
“Perhaps I could come over to Wentworth and see you there,” he said.
He sat down beside her. She held out her hand to him and he took it his
fingers trembling imperceptibly. The softness of the sofa caused them to
lean towards each other. William wanted to brush his lips against her
soft mouth. He pulled her gently towards him and their faces touched.
His moist lips lightly caressed her cheek gradually moving slowly
towards her mouth. Her eyes were closed. His lips found hers, first
brushing them lightly and then suddenly pressing their open mouths
together in passionate embrace, their arms locked around each other
pulling their bodies together. Her warm scented breath caressed his
cheek as the kiss lingered. “I love you” he breathed quietly into to her
ear. “I love you too" she whispered and she began to weep, tears
flowing from those beautiful dark eyes. “Oh, William, hold me
tightly”.
William courted Myra for several months, meeting as often as they could,
sometimes in Greasbrough on her weekends or days off from the Academy.
Occasionally, William would travel to Wentworth meeting Myra when she
could steal a little time away from the Academy, their love for each
other growing stronger week by week..
Life seemed quite idyllic for this couple who were so much in
love.
William and Myra were married in June 1853 at the Sheffield Parish
Church. It was a simple ceremony attended by their families and just a
few friends who helped them to tie the knot. His brother, John was his
best man, who along with his sister Emma witnessed the register. The
wedding festivities were held in the evening at the Yellow Lion with
lots of ale, hot food and dancing and everyone wished the newly married
couple a long and happily married life. Their wedding night was a
delicious amalgam of their bodies giving each other countless spasms of
pleasure until they both fell asleep with exhaustion after the days
events.
Until they could find their own place to rent, William’s mother
offered the newlyweds a room at her cottage. There was plenty of room
there and Myra soon became a happy housewife. She had given up the job
at the Academy but was working in Mangham’s butcher shop in the
village. Each evening, when William came home from the pit, the tin bath
would be ready for him filled with piping hot water. Whilst he bathed
and got rid of all that ingrained coal dust from his body she would be
preparing a dinner. Working in the butcher’s shop enabled her to
obtain fresh meat daily and William had quickly realised that those
years of training and working in the kitchens at the Ashcroft Academy
had turned Myra into an excellent cook. If Thirza was out at this time
she would help him bathe and invariably they would make love before
dinner was served.
As summer passed and the autumn leaves began to fall, Myra decided that
she would tell William a little secret that she had known for well over
a month. That evening just like any other evening after work he came
home to the same routine . The hot tin bath was prepared for him, dinner
ready to put on the kitchen table. William sat at the table, the skin of
his clean shaven face glowing. “He is certainly a good looking man,”
Myra thought to herself as she filled his plate with steaming meat and
potato pie. His pint pot was filled with a pint of ale she had fetched
from the Lion and she knew that William would be ravenous after his long
shift down the pit. Myra sat down opposite William at the kitchen table
and started to eat silently. William poured more gravy on to his pie and
began to consume large forkfuls of pie.
He looked up at Myra and said between mouthfuls, “Delicious”.
“There’s something I want to tell you,” she said. She was finding
it difficult to find the right words. William carried on eating,
concentrating on finishing his meal. “William, I’m going to have a
baby” she said, almost as a whisper. William stopped chewing, his fork
stuck in the last piece of meat, his head slowly lifted and he looked at
Myra. Suddenly, he just dropped his fork onto the plate with a clatter,
jumped out of his chair. He grabbed Myra by the hands, pulled her out of
the chair and began to dance around the small kitchen whooping at the
top his voice, swinging Myra around and around. Myra was laughing as
they spun, shouting “Stop, Stop”. William did stop and pulled her
close to him. He kissed her hard on the lips. “I hope it’s a boy”
he said excitedly.
Winter that year was especially cold. There had been lots of snow and
spring seemed a long time arriving. Myra was now quite large with the
child she carried. She had given up her job at the butchers and William
was still working at the pit. She had started to call him Bill although
his mother disapproved. March and April passed by and the weather was
becoming warmer. The spring daffodils were in full bloom and the new
life was emerging everywhere. There were new born lambs frolicking in
the fields nearby. It was as though life was starting afresh.
Myra had been to the shops to pick up some groceries. She had
baked bread freshly that morning and all the chores were done. Thirza
was sat in the rocking chair by the window, the light helping her to see
the fine stitches of the small tapestry she was sewing. Myra asked her
if she would like a cup of tea and went to put the copper kettle on to
the hob over the warm fire. As she bent over she felt a sharp pain in
her stomach which caused her to wince. Thirza noticed and asked if she
was alright. Myra stood and suddenly felt another twinge of pain. She
looked across at Thirza and said “ I think it’s my time.” Thirza
smiled reassuringly at her and said, “It will be a few hours yet.”
Bill came home as usual, and realised something was happening. No bath,
no dinner. Where was Myra? Where was his mother? He could hear noise
upstairs and went to the bottom to the staircase to listen. He could
hear Myra moaning and his mother trying to reassure her. He wanted to go
upstairs but he knew what was happening. “Push, push now” he could
hear his mother saying. Myra was crying out now with pain as the child
was being born. And then she stopped. For a few seconds there was
silence and then, the cry of that new born baby as it thrust itself into
life taking those first few breaths.
William sat with his head clasped in his hands hoping that everything
had gone well. So many wives and babies had lost their lives at this
moment of childbirth. The child stopped crying and there was a deathly
silence. William raised his head and listened intently. A few minutes
passed. He heard his mother coming down the stairs. The door creaked
open and she leaned out. She
looked across at him through the dim light of the flickering oil lamp.
“You have a beautiful daughter. Why don’t you come up and see your
wife and your new baby?” William climbed the stairs two at a time
almost knocking his mother over in his rush to get to the bedroom. He
pushed opened the door. In the candlelight he could see Myra supported
by a large pillow with a what looked like a bundle of rags held in her
arms. She was smiling. “Come and see your daughter,” she whispered.
He walked around the bed to where he could see, bent and kissed Myra on
the forehead and peered into the bundle of cloth. He could see a screwed
up little face, eyes tightly shut. “She is beautiful” he said and
tears began to flood from his eyes as he began to sob. He bent over to
Myra and she put her arm around his head and pulled him close to her
breast. He heard his mother say, “Come on now, let them rest for a
while. You go and take your bath and when I’ve finished tidying up
around up here I’ll get you some supper.” William kissed Myra gently
on the cheek and pulled aside the small blanket to take another peek at
his little girl. “You are both so beautiful” he said and quietly
left.
Three weeks later she was baptized with the name of Ann at Greasbrough
Parish Church.
William
knew now that it was time to set up his own home. He hated pit life
although he had always made enough wages to support his family, like
many others, he felt he could do better by finding a job in the
Steelworks. It meant moving away from Greasbrough.
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